Orgasm and ejaculation are sometimes confused. Although they almost always occur at the same time and most people think of them as the same thing, orgasm and ejaculation are two different processes. It has always been thought that there were two phases of orgasm: the contractions of pleasure and the release of semen. During ejaculation there are also a kind of pleasant contractions that cause the semen to be expelled to the outside, but they are not the same ones that produce orgasm. As they are two differentiated processes, it is possible to learn to separate them completely.
When we manage to have an orgasm without it being accompanied by an ejaculation, we do not lose the erection, since the refractory period that is necessary to regain a new erection does not occur. In theory, a man who does not ejaculate can chain one orgasm after another and be making love for hours without losing sexual potency.
In China and ancient India, sexual techniques such as Taoism or Tantra have been practiced for centuries, with which orgasms can be achieved without ejaculation. In both cases, they have a series of exercises for relaxation, breathing and to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles that help a man learn to control his ejaculation and, in this way, achieve several orgasms without losing his erection. There are also in these doctrines, exercises to get our inner energy to flow and so that we can clear the mind of thoughts and emotions and focus only on pleasure.
Although it is deeply ingrained in men because it is associated with procreation and survival of the species, it is very important not to cling to the idea that orgasm cannot exist without ejaculation. Most sexual intercourse is not done for procreation but for pleasure. We must be clear that our goal is to fully enjoy sex. Having the ability to achieve multiple orgasms will allow us to have greater sexual satisfaction. We will also find great inner satisfaction and a state of integration with our partner. It is an orgasmic sensation much more intense than that of a normal orgasm.